1. Read the DCF
Survival Memo
2. Give the DCF Investigator the
DCF Client Wallet
Card. We will send you two cards on request, or you
may get them at the office.
3. Contact us immediately:
4. Set up a brief consultation with our office as soon as
possible. Be sure to bring all paperwork or other information.
Have names of DCF workers or other service providers that you
have dealt with. Bring the name and contact information for your
kids’ doctors, schools, therapists. Get as much information
ready as you can; it saves time. Include social security numbers
for yourself and the kids.
5. Be polite with DCF, but tell them that you need to consult
with your attorney before signing anything or speaking to them.
If DCF tries to talk you out of it, keep being polite and do not
give in. Remember that once you sign or say anything, it may be
too late.
6. If necessary, remind the DCF worker that you are entitled to
consult an attorney, per the law and the directives of the DCF
Commissioner.
7. Do not allow anyone into your home without a warrant. If a
police officer tries to intimidate you, get his or her badge
number.
8. Do not allow anyone to speak to your children before you have
spoken to an attorney. See When DCF Talks to Your Kid
Secretly.
9. If you ever sign anything, or give any important paper to
anyone, be sure to keep a copy.
10. DO NOT BE FRIGHTENED. This is America. You have
rights.
* If you are in doubt as to whether you should call us
IMMEDIATELY, please see
Serious Child Abuse Referrals.